Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction by Christopher Canwell

Author:Christopher Canwell [Canwell, Christopher]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Rampage Books
Published: 2017-12-26T06:00:00+00:00

MAINTAIN MYSTERY

It is the dim haze of mystery that

adds enchantment to pursuit.

— Antoine Rivarol

When you first meet a woman, it’s tempting to open up and tell her as much about yourself as possible. And while you might initially be rewarded for your candid disclosure, you’ll inevitably be punished later on for having given away too much information too soon. Instead, you must use the elements of mystery and challenge to your advantage. If you spend countless hours sending messages back and forth, texting and calling a woman, talking about your life, your dreams, and what you had for dinner, you inadvertently kill attraction by revealing too much information. When you over-communicate, you not only risk revealing too much about yourself, you risk killing attraction by being too available and responsive. Regardless of whether or not you want to see a woman, it’s always advisable to keep the calls and messages to a minimum. That doesn’t mean you must act cold and distant, but it does mean you should be aware of the dangers of over communication.

In the early stages of a relationship, it’s important not to move too fast. There’s a tendency to worry that if you don’t get a woman out on a date as fast as possible, she’ll forget about you and move on. You must have enough confidence in yourself to know that a woman won’t be able to forget about you that easily.

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